April 16, 2014
<Every once in a while the kids are asked “the fun” question. And they’re never sure quite how to answer.
Are you kids having fun?
Yes. No. Sometimes.
Not right now. Ask me around the campfire after a hot supper and chocolate for dessert.
Are you having fun is not a question hiking adults ask other hiking adults, so I find this a curious question to ask a child/teen long distance hiker.
Anyone who is out here for more than five days knows this isn’t always fun. Not even close.
I had some email correspondence with another mother whose family did a three year sailing trip when their kids were younger. She mentioned something to me about family adventuring, something we have found to be true on the trail also. The high’s are high and the low’s are low.
We’ve all (except Damien) have had a turn with tears. But this is no different from our experience in the course of two weeks of normal life. We’re not on a vacation, where we seek relaxing pleasure experiences every day. We’re on a long distance hike, and we’re all adjusting to that.
These past two weeks have been filled with moments that were beautiful, rewarding, boring, happy, warm, disappointing, dry, melancholy, tiring, cold, exciting, rainy, challenging, sunny, and relaxing. Fun doesn’t begin to describe the experience and could never do it justice. Nor does it tell the whole truth.
Amazing life adventures are so much than fun. They are high’s and low’s, mountain tops and valleys - literally - woven together to create a rich, life changing, relationship building experience.
Sixteen days in, our hike has been amazing. It has been challenging and rewarding likewise.
Are we having fun? Why yes we are. Fireside with new friends, sunsets, sunrises, trail magic, excursions off trail, a zero day at the NOC, funny conversations, and new discoveries are all fun.
Hiking when we are tired, wet, cold, sore, (fill-in-the-blank) is not so much fun. And we experience the not-so-fun moments every day. Sometimes hour by hour.
But in those moments, all the moments fun and dreary, we’re growing, we’re learning, we’re having deeply enriching (life-changing) experiences.
Fun is not a word I’d use to describe our hike. Amazing is more like it.
Oh! I like your daughter's new haircut! It's so funny, isn't it, the silly questions that people think to ask children. As a homeschool parent it amuses/frustrates me that adults can't think of anything to talk to children about beyond "What grade are you in?". As adults, we talk to other adults about the weather, the news, our jobs, our families, and our hobbies. Children can talk about these things too! OK, rant over. :)
It's fun but a different kind of fun, that's for sure! Heading for the Smokies...that's awesome! We trudged across Clingman's in snow, postholing our way across. Made for a long day, but I think y'all will be in the clear from snow.
My MIL has an aquaintance hiking with two female family members up ahead. They started in mid-March and are only halfway through the Smokies, but I think y'all will pass them here in the next week or two based on your mileage. His real name is John, I haven't seen them post trail names yet. http://3rdcareeradventures.blogspot.com/
Happy Trails!
As I watch the snow coming down (yet again) outside here at home, your adventure is an inspiration. Keep doing hard things! And thank you for these posts and pictures, they're beautiful.
Following along and thinking of you guys lots!!
Following along with my kids. We love your videos and can't wait for the next one. My 7 year old asks, "Are your backpacks heavy? and Are there rivers you have to cross?" My 5 year old says "My sister is right, we actually do love your videos. Is there a hotel in the mountain?" My 9 year old says "How do you find a spot to camp for the night?"
Angela, we will totally answer these questions in our videos! Thank you for asking them so we can work that into the video series. Tell your kids the answers are on the way :)
Hi Renee and family, looks like you are seeing some beautifful sights. Great pix Renee! Looking forward to your next post already.
You popped into my mind this mornign and I was wondering how you guys are doing. Loved finding this piece. Thinking of you!
P.S. Love that braid/short hair cut!!! Daring & individual!
That's our Padawan - not afraid to be herself!
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Jaclyn B on April 16, 2014, 10:43 a.m.
So excited to watch this adventure unfold!